How many women have wanted you so badly they not only make an appointment but line up to offer you money? Garren James is owner and CEO of Cowboys4Angels, which makes him king of hunk mountain. He knows what women want.
It’s not just looks and success. Women want a man to be attentive, respectful, and overall, a gentleman. Treat them with respect, as per his advice below, and they’ll want to spend more time in your company.
So bask in his occupational knowledge and apply it to your relationship. Hey, maybe your girlfriend will start paying you to go on dates! Best of both worlds! [Whether or not you and your girlfriend have sex afterward is at your discretion. She is paying you for your time, feelings, and willingness to accompany her shopping, not for intercourse.]
1. Shower them with compliments but NEVER lie to them. Don’t tell them they are the skinny when they are not. Don’t tell them they are the most beautiful girl in the world when they are not. But give many compliments about what is amazing about them. Their smile or their laugh. All women are beautiful in their own way.
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2. Listen to them. The number one complaint that women give about men is that they doesn’t listen. If tell you about a problem they are having, listen with an open and understanding ear and don’t just give them a solution. They don’t just want answers to their problems but they want to be heard and understood.
3. Do not spend the evening talking about yourself. Women tend to ask a lot of questions but if all you do is answer their questions about you and do not turn the questions around they will feel like you care about them and will say that all the guy did was talk about himself the whole time.
4. Do not pay attention to that beautiful woman that just walked across the room. When you are with a woman, give her your undivided attention. After all, we wouldn’t like it if they check out every hot guy that walks by so treat them how you would like to be treated.
5. Do not look at your cellphone when out on a date with a new lady friend. Keep your phone in your pocket. You can look at it anytime. This is the time to show them that they’re more important than a status update or somebody else you’re texting.
6. Chivalry is not only still alive and well but is extremely important. Open all doors for her. Hold her hand. Push in her chair. Offer her your jacket for warmth. Show her that you are a real man who treats her with the respect and dignity she deserves.
7. Always notice something specific about their appearance like their hair or the pair of earrings they are wearing. Men are about the big picture whereas women are about details. When you acknowledge the small things, they know you are paying attention.
8. Buy them flowers. And not just on Valentine’s Day and their birthday. Send them flowers at work. Surprise them with flowers at home. Women love flowers because they are just like them. They are pretty and they smell good.
9. Remember that when it comes to sexuality men are like are like sports cars and can go from 0 to 60 in less then 10 seconds and female sexuality is like boiling a pot of water. You need to first add the heat then slowly raise the temperature until it is at a boiling point. SLOW DOWN and take your time! Sex is not a race to the finish line but it is about enjoying the journey.
10. If they are ever going through a tough time let them know that everything is going to be okay. There is always a happy ending and if it’s not happy then that is not the ending.
Garren James is the founder of Cowboys4Angels (link NSFW, duh), the world’s biggest straight male escort agency.
